How Teen Role Models Shape Success at Vision Martial Arts As parents, we know that children learn best when they are supported by a strong team of role models. For young kids, it’s essential to have positive influences who guide them toward making good decisions, managing emotions, and setting long-term goals. But not every mentor […]
As parents, encountering disrespectful remarks or hurtful words from our children can be both perplexing and disheartening. It’s especially challenging when we’re striving to raise respectful and empathetic individuals. If your child is between the ages of seven and nine and you’ve noticed an increase in sassiness, rest assured you’re not alone. This behavior is […]
The Essential Guide for Parents of Tweens & Teens Navigating the turbulent years between 10 and 14, children undergo a profound transformation in their physical, intellectual, emotional, and social spheres. This period is marked by a significant shift in brain chemistry, heavily influenced by neurotransmitters like dopamine, oxytocin, serotonin, and endorphins. Understanding these changes can […]
BACK TO SCHOOL: A Comprehensive Guide for Every Age As the summer winds down, anticipation for the new school year grows. For children and parents alike, the transition from laid-back summer days to structured academic routines can be challenging. To ensure a smooth transition and set your child up for success, it’s crucial to prepare […]
Black Belt Strategies for Real-World Goals At Vision Martial Arts in Patchogue, we blend the ancient discipline of martial arts with modern psychological insights to teach more than just self-defense—we equip our students with life skills. Goal-setting, a critical component of personal and professional development, is deeply integrated into our training philosophy. This article delves […]
The impact of bullying on a child can be severe, both emotionally and academically. Bullied children may experience sadness, anxiety, and fear and have difficulty concentrating in school. They may also have difficulty sleeping or eating and may have low self-esteem. Bullying can also lead to absenteeism and poor academic performance; in some cases, it […]
The Benefits of Martial Arts Themed child Development Classes for Kids Martial arts are an excellent way for kids to stay active, learn discipline, and develop a range of skills that will benefit them throughout their lives. At Vision Martial Arts, we use age-specific curricula to bring the latest in child development science and psychology […]
Stress is a common experience that affects people of all ages, including kids. Unfortunately, many adults overlook the need for stress relief in kids, assuming that they are too young to experience stress or that they will simply grow out of it. However, the truth is that stress can have a significant impact on a […]
Helping Kids Through the First Days of School… and Beyond Imagine the scene: kids return home from their first day back at school. Parents eager to hear about their child’s day ask the ever-present question, “How was it?” Instead of excitement, the reply might be filled with disappointment, maybe about the loss of freedom, […]
As the final weeks of summer in Patchogue unfold, you might find yourself taking a moment to reflect. The sun-drenched afternoons of playdates and pool times are gradually giving way to the inevitability of the school bell. That slow-growing anxiety about school preparations, re-establishing routines, and ensuring your child’s social and academic well-being starts to […]
In our Child Development program, the class planners are divided into 6 parts. SKILLZ Class Format: Warm Up & Brain Prep Mat Chat Builds Intellectual Connections Skill-Building Drills & Working Memory Skill-Based Curriculum Cool Down & Memory Storage Game & Emotional Anchoring Each part of the class works to set the student up for the […]
In our SKILLZ child development classes, we use martial arts as a tool to help kids connect with the powerful lessons that give them an unfair developmental advantage. Each activity is specifically designed to target one or more of these areas of development. We use the acronym PIES to describe these aspects of a child’s […]
Over the years, healthy connection levels between parents and children have decreased, leading to more challenging behaviors from children. Today’s modern lifestyle has interfered with the opportunity for the parent-child bond to grow. This vital aspect of a child’s life is essential for their emotional cup to be full, giving them healthy self-worth and self-esteem. […]
Our newest team member, Amie, has some tips to help you discover how to get the most out of the weekend while also serving as an amazing example for your kids. Self Love is something so many parents forget to practice. It’s hard to care for others when your tank is empty, so be sure […]
There are a lot of activities that are available to children these days that will help them build confidence. In fact, confidence is one of the more common requests that we have from parents who bring their children to Vision Martial Arts. Parents want us to help bring the kids out of their shells help […]
Direction of Approach: The Skillz Difference A Skillz Child Development Center uses certain aspects of martial arts training as a tool or vehicle for helping kids spur physical, intellectual, emotional, and social development. That means a Skillz school is a martial arts school….right? Skillz is a fairly new concept in child development and education. Because […]
Everybody Loves PIES! People who visit Vision Martial Arts for the first time often ask us what exactly a SKILLZ Child Development Center is. And that is one of our favorite questions! When educating children, it is important to consider the ENTIRE child. We do this by focusing on four developmental areas: Physical, Intellectual, Emotional, […]
Usually, we think of motivation in one of two ways: Do it right & you’ll get [reward] Do it wrong & you’ll get [punishment] This is a very simplistic model of motivation, but to be fair, most adults don’t study the psychology of motivation when prepping to become parents. Let’s talk about two basic categories […]
In the old days, it was expected that kids would know to be seen and not heard. Developmental science has come a long way since then, and these days we understand that the concepts of discipline and focus actually take time to learn, and that the perceived lack of focus in younger kids can be […]
Nowadays, it seems that children are only interested in their video games, smartphones, and social media platforms. Parents are frustrated with their children’s lack of motivation for and attention to other activities and are at a loss as to what to do. Therefore, parents often respond by taking devices away and punishing their children.Although this […]
Grade school can be quite the experience for any child. It is a place where a child not only learns academically but one where a child must learn to socialize and function in the world. Unfortunately, there are a lot of negative experiences that a child may have when going through school. Whatever those experiences […]
From 18 to 36 months of age, children’s skill development moves very fast. Their brains are growing rapidly, language is blooming, and motor skills are advancing. At the same time, thinking becomes more developed, and their social and emotional capabilities enable them to interact with more people. With that said, this is the ideal age […]
Seven to nine-year olds are what most people consider “the golden age.” They are proficient in their vocabulary and problem-solving skills, yet they are not at the age where they want complete independence from adults. This makes the teacher-student relationship stronger than ever. The problem we discovered is they still lack core skills, and although […]
Introducing the Internationally Acclaimed Basic SKILLZ Program! Five and six-year olds are the most enthusiastic students. They love creativity and problem-solving, which makes them ideal students in the Martial Arts. The problem we discovered is they are so progressive in following tasks, some teachers tend to treat them like their older peers. This is […]
Introducing the Internationally Acclaimed Early SKILLZ Program! Preschool kids between the ages of three and four years old love physical activity, especially anything involving play. They have a rich imagination and a strong desire to be less dependent on their usual caregivers. The challenge we discovered is that many children at this age have a […]
From Tantrums to Triumphs: Emotional Coaching in Martial Arts Imagine your child on the martial arts mat, tears brimming after a fall. How does the instructor not only calm them but also transform this moment into a positive experience? This is where understanding child psychology, neuroscience, and effective coaching comes into play. As parents, diving […]
Fostering Resilience in Young Martial Artists: A Parent’s Guide As parents and instructors at Vision Martial Arts in Patchogue, we witness daily the joy and pride children experience when they master a new martial arts form or skill. But, as in any journey, challenges are inevitable. It’s crucial to remember that facing and overcoming these […]
Harnessing the Power of the One Thing: Motivating Your Child in Martial Arts & Beyond As parents and instructors at Vision Martial Arts in Patchogue, we understand the challenges of keeping children motivated, especially after a long day filled with schoolwork and activities. It’s a common scenario – how do you get your child to […]